Cheating. This is not an “every-guy thing,” you know. Lots of boyfriends are honest, they keep to their promises, and they do not cheat. When it is time for a dating relationship to end, they end it and move on. In other words, they don’t start something with another girl while they are still in a dating relationship.
Some of you girls are already thinking On what planet do those guys live? I’ve never known a guy like that. If that is the case, maybe you need to start hanging around with a different group of guys.
If you have a history of dating cheaters or know way too many girls who have, then you might need to rethink how you pick your boyfriends.
Here's !s 3 Reasons why Guys Cheat Their Part!ner
Guys really Aren’t all that Complex- Nor are their Relationships
There is lots of advice floating around in books, blogs, and every-day conversations about why guys cheat. But if you haven’t figured this out yet, you will eventually discover that guys are really not that complex.
The male approach to dating lies somewhere between that of a caveman and a mechanical engineer, often more like the caveman. So, I have simplified the WHY of cheating by whittling it down to five things. This is not intended to be a complete list, mind you. But understanding these few simple things about guys could help you a lot.
1.Boyfriends Cheat because they want out of the relationship
Dustin wrote: I think the 2 main reasons why guys cheat goes like this:
1) Guys get stuck with a clingy girl. He figures maybe she’ll change over the course of a few months. He really likes the girl for a lot of her character traits but notices that she’s not going to let him go.
Miss Insecurity is dating Mr. Self-Confident, and with that relationship, she is trying desperately to plug some pretty big holes in her own self-esteem
2.Boyfriends Cheat because their Relationship Goals are Different
Then there are guys who are very willing to talk about the relationship. They make lots of promises, using words like, “I love you,” “you’re so beautiful,” and “spend our lives together.”
The girlfriend might be saying the same words, but there is a difference. Some girls give a lot and put up with a lot in order to get what they want
The girlfriend might be saying the same words, but there is a difference. Some girls give a lot and put up with a lot in order to get what they want
3.Boyfriends Cheat because they aren’t strong enough to resist the temptation
Boyfriends who cheat don’t always do it with a plan in mind. Remember, guys are not that complex. You probably know about some girls who stalk guys like sexual predators- they try in every way they can to get them to cheat. Unfortunately, some guys just don’t have what it takes to refuse.
4.Boyfriend’s cheat because of the influences around them
Check this out…when it comes to being faithful to wives and girlfriends, one of the most important factors is a guy’s parents. Generally
speaking, guys who grow up in homes where their parents cheat, find it much easier to do the same thing.
Counselor Gary Neuman asked 200 cheating and non-cheating husbands about why they cheated. He found that 77% of cheating men have a good friend who also cheated. Some guys give in easily to the temptation to cheat because that is what their friends and family do. You should not judge a guy by what those around him do, but don’t underestimate the power of influence.
5.Boyfriends cheat because they got away with it before
Do you remember Tiger Woods? He was married to one of hottest women on the planet, but he was a big-time cheater with lots of
women. (BTW, only 12% of cheating husbands in the Neuman study said that the women they cheated with were more physically attractive than their wives.)
The guy cheated once, then twice, then three times. It became easier and easier to give in, harder and harder to say no
